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To Scratch an Itch
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So, you want to visit a Dominatrix… In other blogs, I have touched on the why and the how – this one will raise a few questions on the when. As you will no doubt notice, many Dominas do not take same day appointments, so how can you schedule a visit and why do you…
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No Means No
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There are many, many upsides to my profession – lots of things that I enjoy, and that I put a great amount of effort into to produce what I hope are strong and positive outcomes. As with anything though, there is no white without black, no sweet without sour. I do not generally speak of…
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Latex and Lace
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Another article I wrote, ‘The Dominatrix – Bullwhips, Strapons and Modern Male Sexuality’ which concerns itself with the image of a dominatrix and how this has evolved, got me thinking about the aesthetic of that image. We are all fondly aware of the striking image of a dominatrix clad in tight fitting leather, complete with…
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The Gravity of Smaller Acts
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‘Hi Mistress, I would like to be suspended, have breath play, electrics, wax, mummification, use spreader bars, try on a humbler, use an oral speculum and have sensory deprivation for a while, followed by a flogging on your St Andrews with no marks.. Oh, and possibly a brief spell in your Russian gas mask.’ ‘How…
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The Dominatrix – Bullwhips, Strapons and Modern Male Sexuality
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Collins defines a dominatrix as ‘a woman who plays the dominant role in a sado-masochistic sexual relationship or encounter’ or, ‘a woman who dominates’. The use of this word dates back to the mid 1500’s, and has evolved over time to become a description associated with a certain type of empowered woman. The word dominatrix…
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The Importance of Communication
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A lot of focus gets given through various media to the aesthetics, equipment and activities associated with domination. Rightly so, these are a part of a scene for many, and a visual and physical demonstration of what one may wish to convey, inflict or impart. To those who may be new to BDSM and fetishism…
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Pin Cushion
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This article is regarding a session that took place recently, and due to its rather unique nature I thought it would be nice to share a few moments from it with you. ‘X’ is a client of mine who I have sessioned with a few times, and is of a somewhat masochistic nature enabling us…
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Corporal Punishment – Can I Cope?
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Within the many areas of my profession that I enjoy, corporal punishment is a practice that always brings a smile to my face. To generalize the benefits, corporal punishment can be intense, ritualistic, cathartic, even relaxing! The does not mean that you have to feel your life and limbs are in danger because of the…